tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197301122011-06-08T07:18:43.367+01:00Nothing but a bunch of interfering busybodies.Pamplemoussenoreply@blogger.comBlogger151100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19730112.post-1166201339875013012006-12-15T16:48:00.000Z2006-12-15T16:48:59.886Z

Sadly this blog is now defunct.If your problem was not answered, please feel free to email me (see profile) privately.

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Sorry, but due to a lack of resources we're not accepting any new problems at the moment.

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Today's answer comes from Clare.A Problem:well, first of all thank you. I promise to try and do something nice for someone I know, or randomly, in return.I've only ever dated women but in the past year I've drunkenly kissed (my first ever) 3 men and I'm a bit confused. I half want to explore my sexuality but worried that I'll close the door permenantly on a wife n kids if I do - it's not

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Today's answer comes from Linda.A Problem:I believe a friend of mine is in a bad relationship. I don't think it is going to go where she wants it -marriage, kids. He is younger, and less mature. Despite the fact that he has met her parents several times and they live in a different state, she still has not met his even though they live in the same city. It is an acceptance problem; he thinks they

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Today's answer comes from Joe.A Problem:Bit of a thorny one, this. I like to think of myself as someone who loves and needs freedom, probably because I have an all too precarious sense of my own independence. So perhaps no big surprise that I've chosen to work in a very heirarchichal corporation that, whilst on the one hand expects its staff to be creative and productive, also at some level

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Today's answer comes from Linda.A Problem:This new year I gave up cannabis. I had a pretty heavyweight habit which grew over a period of 16 years into a 2g a day addiction. My partner and I want to have a baby and had heard that cannabis can effect sperm motility. Also recently I would have coughing fits when smoking my bong. The combination of these two points is what has motivated me to quit.

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Today's answer comes from Linda.A Problem:I was with someone for nearly a decade. I don't doubt that I was deeply in love with him, though the last few years were more like living in stasis as flatmates. I left him recently, and it broke his heart.I am having two problems.firstly, I'm finding it hard to deal with the guilt of it all. I did love him, I tried to do all the right things, but I still

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Today's answer comes from Clare.A Problem:Many Blessings to you!I am almost 40, African American and new to the world of blogging. I like to do a little writing from time to time, and I like also to take pictures and edit them, so at the suggestion of a good friend, I put together a blogspace. But I am trying to get a feel for how it all works. I've had my site since last October, and sometimes

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Today's answer comes from Mike.A Problem:I'm starting to think there is something really wrong with me. I'm 25 and still single. I don't mean single now, I mean I have always been single. I don't seem to attract many guys and the ones I do are losers, stoners, non English speakers and old men. The really old kind, the kind who could be my dad. Ewww. As the years pass by my standards slowly drop

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Today's answer comes from Clare.A Problem:i think i might have killed my dads cat. about 5 years ago he went on holiday and asked me to look after his cats. one of them, known as gin, was ill and had to be given tablets. one day i returnd from work to find her spread eagle in fron of the patio door, foaming at the mouth and her heart beating very rapidly.. i rang the vet who said bring her in

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Today's answer comes from Zinnia.The Problem:I have been having the hardest time lately. I lost my mum to brain cancer this last September, and I have been struggling to deal with this hole in my life. I walk around, and I look at other people, and it makes me angry that they have mums and I don't anymore, through no fault of my own. Christmas was a really family holiday for us, and now it's

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Today's answer is posted by Clare.The Problem:I have recently met a truly wonderful woman, who has had a deep and profound effect on my life. Which is wonderful. And the feeling(s) seem to be mutual. However she is the mother of two children and also with a partner. I feel like I'm on the edge of a cliff, I have really fallen for this woman although we don't really know each other that well (lots

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Today's answer is posted by Clare.The Problem:I'm generally a friendly person, but I seem to attract a lot of what could kindly be called "waifs and strays" and less kindly the borderline psychotic / desperately lonely / socially inadequate. I guess I kind of recognise myself in them, which is why they probably gravitate to me, but there comes a point where you've done everything you can to

Pamplemoussenoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19730112.post-1134162045099814202005-12-09T20:53:00.000Z2006-01-21T09:46:39.046Z

This is a brand new Claire Rayner column. For the non-UK-ers amongst you, Ms Rayner is a well-known British agony aunt.Some time in January, we'll start trying to solve problems.We're not qualified or anything, we just can't resist sticking our oars in.We haven't quite worked out exactly who or what we are yet, but we might have any or all of the following available to poke their noses in your

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